The Independent 4-5 Year Old
 "I can do it myself!"    Every parent has heard this preschool battle cry at some point and it is cause for celebration!  This is evidence that your child is growing and developing.   However, at some point even the most independent preschooler can be resistant to doing some things for themselves and in some cases that's ok.      What are some things a 4–5-year-old should be able to do for themselves?      Dress themselves, choosing clothes appropriate for the      weather   Put on and take off their own jacket or coat   Zip or button clothing and jacket/coat   Use the bathroom completely independently (this      includes "wiping")   Feed themselves   Be able to brush their teeth and wash hands/face      independently   Put their toys away   Simple chores, such as making their bed, setting the table, or washing vegetables    Sometimes kids will want to give up when things are hard to do. To get past this, parents and teachers need to provide a lot of ...